What did Entrepreneurship Teach Me?

Hey again! Here’s another glimpse into my head as of late.

Maybe this is the perfect time to announce I’ve decided to leave Chesapeake Collection, a brand I started with my friend Matt, when we were juniors in college. I’ll get more into the why later, but to open, I want to say that while Chesapeake Collection wasn’t for me, it taught me lessons, and gave me perspectives on things in life that I’ve never been exposed to before. I wrote this blog to share some of my experiences. Maybe some of you have already learned these things, maybe some of you haven’t.

Now remember, the intent of my blog posts are never to lecture, they’re simply my thoughts, what I learned, and you’re free to do with them what you will.

Let’s go!

# 1: The Numbers Matter

“Yeah, no shit Kev.”….I know, I know. But hey, there might be some people out there who still haven’t realized it, or don’t put enough importance on it. But if you’re thinking of starting a business, and business wasn’t your major, that’s okay, just remember that cash is king. Anything you do when you work on your business, your mindset should be “How, and when is this idea or action going to generate sales?” If it isn’t, stop wasting your time. You could have the best product in the world, the best business partners and staff in the world to work with, the best mission and philosophy, but none of it is going to matter if it’s not going to be putting money into the bank account. The likes, the follows and the shares don’t matter. Only the sales that result from them do.

With that, remember to watch costs. Always be finding ways to decrease production costs, or make current costs work to generate more dollars (without compromising product quality, or brand identity of course). And yes, there are going to be times where you have no choice but to spend money to make money. But you must make sure that what you’re making is drastically more than what you’re spending, and that the spending will eventually result in increased sales. If it isn’t, head back to the drawing board.

#2: Stop Trying to Please Everyone!

Brand reputation is everything, and how your audience perceives you matters. However, if your goal is to please every single person out there, to make everyone happy, you’re only going to end up disappointing yourself. Not everyone is going to like you, not everyone is going to like your brand. It’s just a fact of life, and the sooner you accept that, the happier you’ll be.

Through Chesapeake Collection, we met so many incredible people; people we genuinely looked forward to working with. But again, as young entrepreneurs, we learned that sometimes, working with certain people isn’t the best possible thing we can be doing for the business. Sometimes their product or service is too expensive, sometimes there is just a better opportunity out there.

Aw, but gee, I really like working with ________, they’re really nice. Great, be their friend. But you run a business, you’re trying to make a living, and a lot is riding on how, and with whom you spend your time. In this case, it’s okay to put your interests above theirs, and say “no”, especially if it’s to protect the well being of your business, or you as a person. When did the word “no” become so evil?

The goal here should not be to please everyone, but to please as many as possible. The health of you and your business is paramount, and if it means that you’re going to upset a few third parties or customers, so be it!

#3: It’s Possible!

Since starting Chesapeake Collection, the two most common things I’ve heard are “how did you start this?” Or “I’ve always had a similar Idea, but I never knew how to go about it.” I don’t think people realize how incredibly possible it is to start something, from absolutely nothing, especially with the technology we have access to in today’s day…Nike was fathomed when Phil Knight was 24 years old, laying in his childhood bedroom, and he didn’t even have the internet. So many tech start ups you see, Apple, Google, Amazon, all began as just a bunch of guys in their parents’ garages, behind a computer.

That’s all Chesapeake Collection was at first. The very first thing it was, was just an idea, it was only something in our heads. But the difference between us, and the people who have talked to us, saying “I’ve always had an idea for something like this, but…” is that once it was in our heads, we turned off our televisions, we cancelled plans with friends, got together, opened Microsoft Word, and began typing up that business plan, that we would eventually be passing out to potential investors. In addition, we simply logged on to maryland.gov and filed for our LLC, and by the fall, we were an officially incorporated business.

I don’t think people realize how simple it is to get things rolling. It worked for us, and guess what? It will work for you too, which brings me to my next point.

#4 Take the Time, and Go For It, No Matter What!

Now this is where it’s gonna get controversial. But I have a favor to ask you people.

If you could, could you please show me where it’s written that you HAVE to have everything figured out by age 27? Where does it say that you have to have your career set, you have to be married, you have to be a homeowner by your mid to late twenties?

Now don’t get me wrong, I have plenty of friends who have found a job they genuinely love, have the financial means, and who have met the right person, and now that the opportunity is there, they should 100% go for it! I hope that what’s just been said, wasn’t interpreted as “nah dude, break up with her” or “quit your job” or “move back home”. If you have these great opportunities in front of you, please capitalize on them!

What frustrates me is that I feel like this is what our generation places value on now.

I feel like social media has created something now, where in order to be a person of value, you have to have your career and your love life figured out within a few years of graduating college.

News flash…you don’t!!!!

To anyone who is still in college, or just graduated: If your dream is to do what everyone else is doing, then go for it. But if it isn’t, don’t.

I’m just asking, what is wrong with moving back home for a while? What is wrong with taking your time and trying different things until you find something that makes you look forward to waking up early in the morning and getting to work, instead of only living for the weekend?

Because at some point in your life, you’re going to meet someone, or see someone on TV or social media, that has the life that you wanted. You know, the job/career/business you wanted to start…someone who had the idea you had, but the difference is they sacrificed and went for it, and you didn’t…because you were too scared to pursue it, because you felt pressure to do what everyone else was doing.

So many people these days are asking people my age “have you met someone yet?”…..”are you getting your own place soon?” ….”what’s your job looking like in the next few years?”

Not enough people ask …….”Are you chasing your dreams?”, “Are you exploring different things?” Or….”are you happy?”

So long story short…do you have an idea? Do you have something that lights a fire under your ass? Good, do it! Stop focusing on what everyone else is doing, get to your computer, and start that business, write that book, write that script, do that project!

Just make sure what you’re doing is meaningful/and that you at least have SOME kind of paid work, because no one wants to be one of those people that sits in your parents basement and paints and smokes weed, and watches porn all day. Using your time to be productive IS imperative.

But win or lose, I promise you that you’ll be happier you swung the bat.

Bringing me to my final point.

#5: Prioritize Happiness!

One of my favorite jokes of all time was told by Daniel Tosh during one of his stand up acts. He said “They say money can’t buy happiness. Oh really? Have you ever seen someone unhappy on a wave runner?” While funny, it’s true.

Money obviously cant buy the emotion of happiness, but it can buy the experiences which lead to happiness. So yeah, money can absolutely buy happiness.

But it shouldn’t be what you rely on to achieve happiness…

I’m going to do you a huge favor right now. Close this window, and go search “Gary Vaynerchuk” on Facebook. Follow him. Also go follow his Instagram account “@garyvee”. This guy is life changing. Trust me, you’ll be thanking me for this at some point, if you don’t already know who he is.

One of the most common lessons he expresses is happiness is the number one priority, not money. Some of you may disagree, and that’s fine, but I certainly don’t.

I’ve met plenty of successful people in my lifetime. Some of these people have even been millionaires. And some of these millionaires are great, but some are also miserable, and complete assholes to be honest.

Here’s just one of many articles that discuss this!

If your goal right now is to become richer and more popular than everyone around you, you’re only going to set yourself up for more disappointment. Haven’t you noticed by now, that there’s ALWAYS someone who has more money and more friends than you? It’s just how life works!

If you would have asked me a year or two ago how I loved Chesapeake Collection, I would have told you all the reasons why I did. I loved the fact that I was an entrepreneur. I loved the fact that I worked for myself and was my own boss. I loved the fact that I got to work with one of my best friends. I loved the fact I created something that was potentially going to make me a lot of money. And yeah, I’m not going to lie, it was pretty awesome to appear in newspaper articles, and on TV…

…however, I’m here to tell you now, that if you don’t love what do, none of that means anything!

Over this past summer, one of our new board members asked me “How badly do you want this? Do you LOVE what you do?” I immediately replied “yes”. But over the next few days, I started asking myself “Wow…is this really what I love doing?”

I hope you all know that the glory and media spots and all that stuff is just a tiny, tiny part of what being an entrepreneur is. The reality is that it’s mostly many hours of grueling work, heartache, stress, fights, late nights and early mornings.

In being an entrepreneur, you have to be willing to put the many hours in, and have to be willing to not be able to make much money, if any, for a few YEARS.

I know I have the drive and work ethic to do that, but ultimately, I realized that I didn’t have the passion for Chesapeake Collection, to put those hours in, that Matt did.

Chesapeake Collection is an excellent brand. Many people in Maryland, and elsewhere, identify with it. We’ve come up with some kick-ass designs, no doubt about that. If that wasn’t the case, our sales wouldn’t be increasing every year, and we wouldn’t have a constant influx of people wanting to do business with us.

However, if you know me, you know what I love. I love surfing, I love hunting, I love fishing, I love craft beer and whiskey, I love comedy, I love standing up, and being outdoors.

The past few weeks, when Matt and I would go into our retailers to field their spring orders, I watched Matt pitch our products, old and new. He is incredibly talented in this area. Because he has a genuine passion for Chesapeake Collection, and the products it offers. My head, sadly, was in other places. Matt deserves someone who shares the same piss and vinegar for Chesapeake Collection as he has. Now that he has that person, I’m confident he is going to take this brand to unbelievable heights.

When I prepared to announce my desire to move on to our board of directors, I was nervous because I didn’t know how they would react. After all, they’ve put their time and money into this. Not to mention, they are some of the smartest, most successful businessmen in the area, and I’d feel awful if I ever let any of them down. When I made my announcement, I was relieved to see smiles on each of their faces, instead of disappointment.

Each of them told me what I’ve been telling you. It’s way more important that you follow your dreams and your passions.

As Gary Vaynerchuk says, It’s not about the the end game, it’s about the process of getting there.

The titles and accolades of being an entrepreneur mean nothing if you don’t love what you do.

I know money makes everything easier, but I hope it will not be the number one thing that drives you. Because there will ALWAYS be someone your age who makes more money than you do.

Instead, try and find other sources of joy in your career, whether it’s loving what you’re selling, enjoying the work, or enjoying who you work with.

I can’t wait to begin this next adventure, of finding something that will truly make me happy, and I hope you will take the time to do the same.

Thank you!

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It’s not a Republican or Democrat problem. It’s a PEOPLE problem.

Hi everyone. It’s been a while since I’ve shared a blog. And by that, I mean it’s only my second post. But it’s something I enjoy doing and want to get more into. Also seeing everything in the news today compelled me to write this. So here I go…

My favorite lesson in history is, without a doubt, the American Revolution. In my opinion, it’s one of the most important events in mankind’s history. That, or this…

Anyway, as I was saying… A slight tax increase on a beverage caused group of mere farmers and businessmen to rise up and defeat the largest empire in the world at the time. Shortly after, we wrote a document that states we can think what we want, say what we want, and own the exact same type of weapons our government has so that we can always keep them in check.

I really couldn’t care less about what goes on in Germany, Denmark, Canada, etc. (Please refer to the opening quote if you want a better idea of my opinion on those countries.) Those places are always nice to visit, but that’s all they’ll ever be to me. Just nice places to visit. I love America so much because it’s my home. That, and I love the ideals which it was founded upon.

However, I believe this country has entered into some dark times, and it’s either going to take lots of hardship to get out of them, or we may never get out of them. And I don’t blame any single politician or group of people for this problem. I blame society as a whole.

It’s this mindset/way of thinking we’ve developed. A lot of factors play into this (education, media, social media, etc). I want to make this as short and simple as I can, so I’ll go ahead and some it up with some bullet points.

Before you continue, I’m going to issue tr…..tr…..(*throws up in mouth*) trigger warnings. I seriously cringe every time that phrase is used. But yeah, some of this probably applies to you, so be prepared.

This is also an opinion piece. I’ve put citations where I deemed necessary, but it’s mostly a glimpse into society, from my eyes and ears…okay, for real this time, here we go:

– Education has become less about exploring our world, and discovering new ideas. Instead, it’s all about absorbing what your teacher/professor is shoving down your throat, and regurgitating that information on to the exam, without questioning any of it.

– We’re willing to skip out on a damn good chicken sandwich or a nice pair of running shoes, simply because of the opinions of their CEO or advertising department differ from ours.

– We claim to support the constitution our founding fathers fought and died to create, yet become outraged whenever someone exercises one of their rights (Kneeling during the anthem, owning an AR-15, etc).

– We assume that just because OUR politician did it, it was the right thing to do. Or, because it was the guy we didn’t vote for, it has to be wrong. Trump or Obama can literally do anything, and we’ll blindly support it (or condemn it, depending upon the situation), no questions asked.

– We believe that the actions of a few individuals account for the demographic as a whole. This includes cops, illegal immigrants, catholic priests, Muslims, people of color, trump supporters, etc… “Oh, ten out of the THOUSANDS/MILLIONS of them behave this way? This must mean they ALL do!”

– We blame the crime on the object used, or the group as a whole (as stated above), instead of the individual and their upbringing. At some point in time, we lost our value for human life. Seriously, back in the 50s/60s, there were often ads for firearms. Yet mass shootings were far more rare. Perhaps we’ve made violence all too casual in tv, movies and video games. Or we just stopped teaching everyone to respect human life.

– We blindly follow our biased media, without questioning whatever it’s telling us. We assume that the one article or headline we read contains all the information we need. We’re not willing to read articles that offer new information or a different perspective, in order to protect ourselves from that weird feeling we all get when new, contradictory information is presented to us.

– Oh, by the way, you think our politicians actually care about Christine Blasey Ford? LMAO! If the Republicans actually cared, they wouldn’t have resisted an investigation. If the Democrats actually cared, they would have pushed for an investigation six weeks ago, when Dianne Feinstein received news of the accusation.

On September 11th, I saw a post that really resonated with me:

Unless we make some changes, I don’t believe we’ll ever see a day like 9/12/01 again. At least not to that extent. There is still some good in this world, but today, many of us would focus on who to blame, or whatever new regulation (infringement on our freedoms) needs to be passed in order to prevent another one from happening again. Some assholes even use it as an excuse to say “Ha! I was right! I told you this would happen!”(Isn’t that sad? Some people actually want bad things to happen, or our leaders to fail, so they can make themselves feel smarter.)

There is still some good in this world, despite what the media may tell you. It’s alive and well. Take the Cajun Navy for example, a group of rednecks from Louisiana with some boats and badass trucks, ORDINARY PEOPLE , NOT GOVERNMENT, going around and rescuing hurricane victims. There are over seven billion people in this world, I hope you will not let the actions of a few bad apples frighten you.

Instead, lead by example, and help spark a positive change in our world. Study the United States Constitution. Greet everyone you see with a smile and a firm handshake. Do something nice for someone every chance you get, whether they’re wearing a “Make America Great Again” hat, or have an “I’m With Her” sticker on their car.

The change in this world does not start with who we elect to office, it starts with US!

WE THE PEOPLE!

Thanks everyone! Tune in next time!

London 2017- The Things We Learned and the Fun Times We Had

Okay, So let me start off by saying this:

If life presents you with an opportunity that gives you a pit in your stomach……DO IT!

When I started college, I wasn’t sure how I felt about studying abroad. Never really cared to look into it. Kinda just wanted to get my classes over with, do the whole fraternity thing and be done with it. But then I saw so many of my friends cease the opportunity to study abroad. I recall looking at their photos and Snapchats from places like Europe, South Africa, and all around the world, with envy and regret. Unfortunately, being on my “victory lap” year at Towson, I missed my opportunity…or so I thought.

Mid September, I noticed an email from Towson’s Mass Communication department, advertising their class, “Corporate Communication in the UK” for the 2017 minimester. I saw it as the perfect opportunity. Two weeks in a foreign country? Bring my course load for the spring semester down to just two, easy classes? I’d be stupid not to! A little over three months later, I found myself at Washington Dulles International Airport, boarding a British Airways flight to London with over a dozen kids I’d never met.

group-on-london-eye

Luckily, I had known of two of these kids through mutual friends and Theta Chi brothers. It also helped that I had one of my Theta Chi brothers studying with another class in the city with us as well. Perfect. Not even a day into the trip, and we’d already formed a solid friend group…plus, the ratio made getting into nightclubs a cakewalk!

So here we all were, thrown into this foreign country together, up to us to navigate it and learn its culture. What follows are some key differences in media, communication and culture between the U.S. and the UK, as well as some of the other adventures we had. Let’s dive in, shall we?

Difference #1: Drinking

Speaking of which, I’ll be right back. Let me go get something to help enhance my writing skills. (Don’t judge, Hemingway did this ALL THE TIME)

Alright, so anyway…

If you’re friends with me, or any of my friends from this trip, be forewarned. We’ve all turned into beer snobs, and you’ll not likely hear the end of it.  I don’t think we went a day without stopping in a pub, as there was one that was always conveniently located near whatever site or attraction we visited. Upon our first pub visit, we instantly noticed the difference between beer in the UK and the U.S.

With craft breweries being the exception, beer in America is…..it’s just….

…It’s piss, okay? Sorry, I don’t know any other way to put it. It’s lite, it’s cheap, and it just doesn’t taste good. I hate to say it, but Budweiser, your commercials won’t work on me anymore.

The beer in England, oh man… it’s dark, it’s rich, it’s thick, it’s smooth, and it gets the job done quicker than most beers in the states. You definitely get more bang for your buck (or pound in this case) with the beers here. I think at each pub, each of us tried two or three different beers. There wasn’t one that we disliked.

Now, with different beer also comes a different drinking culture.

We all know how it goes here in America. We pregame from about 10 until midnight before hitting the bars, and indulge on Bud Light and Vodka Cranberries until we’ve convinced ourselves that we’re good dancers, all before collapsing into our beds at 3am.

In England, it’s very different…adapting to the pub culture took some getting used to. See, the purpose of drinking there isn’t having a contest to see who can get the most drunk and be the most entertaining subject of your friends’ snap story the next morning. The purpose of drinking in England is more social.

Now upon reading that last sentence, a lot of you will probably argue that drinking here in America is social too. Yes, I suppose you’re right, but it’s a different kind of socializing.

We’re so used to being crammed into bars and clubs where the floor is filled with people, and the music is so loud, there’s not really much more we can do than dance, take Snapchats, go order another drink, and occasionally yell to our friends “I’LL BE RIGHT BACK, I HAVE TO PEE!”….that’s the kind of socializing that we experience here.

Social drinking in England is more simple and slow, but there’s also a lot more personal connection and conversation. For example, one of our guest speakers said that pubs are often places where people bring their clients in order to strike business deals with them. The English pubs are the perfect environment for this. They’re very quiet, and the people that are in there often keep to themselves. It’s an easy process. You order your beer, and you slowly enjoy it as you dive into deep conversation with the person or people at your table. Rightfully so too. English beer is a delicacy that deserves to be slowly enjoyed.

If anything, I think pubs are a wayyyyy easier environment for meeting people and making friends, especially if you’re normally an introvert, like me. I personally found it a lot easier to approach people, introduce myself, and start conversations. Now, because Europeans like keeping to themselves at these places, they first found it odd when I approached them. But after an introduction and a handshake, I found myself having conversations with the locals about things like rugby, Trump, the differences between soccer and American Football, Trump, Beer, Trump, Whiskey…oh, and did I mention, the Europeans LOVE talking about Trump? You might find this hard to believe, but they’re more fascinated and dumbfounded about his election than we are. It didn’t really bother me though. It was fun just to be able to talk to people from England, Scotland, France, The Netherlands, even Austria.

The one negative side to this? The last call at English pubs is 11pm. We learned this our second night there. Just as the beer began to dull our senses and we planned the remaining two or three pubs to stop at, the bar tender rang the bell. With a sense of disappointment and urgency, we chugged our beers before we were required to exit the pub and return home at 11pm. 11pm…seriously? Ah well, I’ll take a British pub over anything here any time.

And here I am now, back in America, forced to make do.  Guess I’m back to my regular habits of Heavy Seas and Jack Daniel’s…and being forced to yell my pickup lines at bars and clubs.

America, I learned that there are many aspects where the British have us beat, and beer is definitely one of them. Any arguments against this are invalid. We gotta up our game, plain and simple.

P.S.– To all my fellow Towson students, can we all please make a more conscious effort to make Kent House the move on the weekends?

Difference #2: The Media

Besides the sites and the beer, the main reason we enrolled in this class was to learn about media and communication in the UK. Every day, we heard from a guest lecturer who was an expert in Journalism, Media, PR/Advertising, and Organizational Communication. We even visited the headquarters of BBC and The Guardian, as pictured below:

(Photos by Tori Wolfgang)

So through all of these guest lecturers and site visits, we learned that the media culture in the UK is similar, but also extremely different from what it is here.

One aspect is the style in which media is reported in the UK.

I think this guy sums it up pretty well. But just incase you don’t have the three minutes to watch the video, I’ll fill you in. The media in the UK is delivered to people in manner that informs them and assures them that whatever the situation is, it’s going to be okay.

Ex: “The Ebola outbreak continues in Africa. Don’t worry though, British Troops and medical teams are currently deployed and are containing the virus.”

Now the U.S. on the other hand? Different story. It’s like the media purposely aim to scare us about whatever situation is currently happening in our city, state, or country. For example, remember the H1n1 Virus aka “Swine Flu”? Aka, that virus that was exactly like the regular flu, and ended up killing less people?

Remember how glued to their TV sets everyone was during this time? We’d watch reports like these, where a guy even tells us to “be worried next fall”, then spend the next day at school or work, wondering how long it would take for someone around us to be infected, then returning to the comfort of our homes to watch the same frightening reports, until the media found something else to scare us about.

It’s this ongoing cycle. They find one situation to scare us about, then when that one is either resolved or becomes bold, they find the next thing to scare us about, lather, rinse, repeat, so that we’ll keep running back to them to be “informed”, all to keep their ratings up, and their corporate owners happy (in my opinion at least).

I don’t know about you, but from seeing the differences in reporting style between these two countries, I think I’m gonna place my trust in UK reporting from here on out.

Also, according to our guest lecturer, BBC tries its hardest to be unbiased. She shared a story on the way they reported Brexit.

For those of you who still aren’t sure what Brexit is, you can read more on it here. I really didn’t have a clue as to what it was, but through listening to our guest lecturers and some of the locals, it’s basically the same type of phenomenon as our recent election of Trump.

Anyway, our lecturer went on to say that BBC’s reporting of the event was so impartial, and offered so many conflicting viewpoints, that British citizens complained that they had no sense of direction on what they should think about the issue………….

…….Wait a moment. You mean to tell me that BBC gave people unbiased information and left it up to them to think for themselves?

That’s exactly what the media should be doing!!! It should be impartial, it should give us different information and perspectives on these issues. It should not tell us what to think about the issue. It should inform us, and allow us to freely think, and come to a stance based on our own moral and ethical codes.

Are you taking notes on this, America?

Another thing we learned is that UK is more newspaper based.

We have our TVs, they have their newspapers. They’re everywhere. Some are even free for pick up at the train and bus stations.

We all know the story. Someone admits they watch FOX News, and then we look at them like they’re some sort of demon, or monster. Because its no secret that FOX News tends to have a more conservative bias in their reporting, where as CNN, NBC, CBS, VICE, BuzzFeed, etc do not (I think they’re all as left as can be. But that’s just my opinion, and I could always be wrong).

So in the UK, it’s a lot like that, except with newspapers. The newspaper or tabloid you read is a strong indicator of your social class, and political views.

To name a few, if you read The Guardian (see link above), your views are probably more center-liberal. If you read The Financial Times, you’re probably upperclass, and have a nice corporate/finance job. If you read The Times, you’re most likely a conservative (which is not a coincidence, since Rupert Murdoch, the man who owns FOX News, owns this paper).

If you read The Sun…you basically just want sports and women….yup.

As you can see, the media culture over there has a few similarities, but a lot of differences than the media culture over here. I think the media culture in the U.S. has become very dangerous, as it’s used as a tool to scare us and shape our thinking, instead of something that informs us and allows us to think for ourselves based on the information we’re given.

Be very leary of the media, my fellow citizens, I’m warning you!

Moving on!

Difference #3: History

This was my favorite part of the trip by far. I remember visiting places like St.Mary’s, Fort McHenry, Valley Forge and The Delaware River, for school history projects. I was fascinated that I was gazing upon structures and artifacts from the 1700s-1800s. If only I had known some of the things I was going to see in London and beyond, I probably wouldn’t have been as excited.

Let me show you some of the rich history we got to experience in England, France, and The Netherlands.

chesire-cheese

This is a picture I took inside Ye Olde Cheshire Cheese…for those of you who don’t know what this place is, it’s a pub built in 1538 (rebuilt in 1667 after The Great Fire of London), and was frequented by people like Charles Dickens. Imagine drinking beer in the same room where Charles Dickens potentially put some of his ideas to pen. Also, this place confirmed that people back then were, in fact, a lot shorter. The only way I could avoid hitting my head on the ceiling (which happens enough here in America) was to squat the whole time.

british-museum

Here’s just a cool panoram I took of the British museum. What we found inside is way cooler…

On the left is a body that was found perfectly preserved….from 3500 B.C.

Next to that? Oh, no big deal. Just Cleopatra’s mummy…

eiffel-tower

Thomas Rhett is dead wrong. If you haven’t seen the Eiffel Tower at night, you haven’t lived.

Some old ads from our Ghost Signs tour. Dating all the way back to the late 1800s-early 1900s. I was utterly disappointed when I found out that John Brown Whiskies had since gone out business.

(Image on right via IWMCollections)

So the cheapest flight to a foreign country for our second free day was to Eindhoven, which is a small city in The Netherlands. I knew of Eindhoven from being such a big fan of HBO’s Band of Brothers. I watch the series every year, so getting to walk the exact same streets that the American soldiers and tanks rolled through (notice St. Katherine’s Church in each picture)  was so surreal. I can’t wait to watch the series again and say to myself, yup, I was there. I was right there.

Westminster Abbey, where the royal weddings that you all “oooo” and “aaaah” about, are held. We weren’t allowed to take pictures in the main room, so the best I could could get is the building itself and this tiny chapel. Inside is not only the church, but also the tombs of some of the ancient kings and queens, as well as the tombs of Geoffrey Chauncer and Charles Darwin.

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Okay, Story time!!

This is the only photo I got of the Jack the Ripper tour. The guy in the middle was our guide, named Johnny. He took us to the very spots where the bodies of Jack the Ripper’s victim’s were found. (If you think Ramsay from Game of Thrones is messed up in the head, go research Jack the Ripper). After the tour, we asked him where a good pub and some food would be, to which he replied “Follow me”. Now of course, when you’re up late in a foreign city, no idea how to find your way around just yet, and your phone is almost dead, the best thing to do is follow a complete stranger. Anyway, he lead us down some empty streets, then into a back alley, and then…….opened a hidden door which revealed one of the coolest pubs I’d ever seen. Full of friendly locals and food. Even showed the NFL playoffs on TV. And our guide? Ended up being one of the friendliest people we met in London. Sat down with us while we ate our food and drank our beers, before telling us which bus to get on to get to our apartment. One of the best nights of the trip.

Here’s Hampton Court Palace, home to many of England’s ancient kings and queens. Absolutely incredible to be able to walk down the same halls as historical figures like Henry the 8th, who in my opinion, is one of History’s iconic a-holes. But hey, his gun room (far right) was cool. Yes, he has an entire room with over 2800 muskets, pikes, swords and battle axes. I can only hope that some day, my gun collection will be as admirable as his.

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Here’s a cool pano I took of Windsor Castle. What a sight. Built by William The Conqueror in the 1100’s. Filled with more tombs, ancient dining halls, and weapon rooms. This is also considered the Queen’s home. It’s a shame she wasn’t there that day, cause I’ve been meaning to ask her what it was like to jump out of that helicopter with James Bond during the 2012 Olympic opening ceremony.

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Here’s yet another pano I took of The Tower of London.

The Tower of London included some of ancient London’s armories, the Crown Jewels, and royal torture chambers.

To someone who’s never been to London, these all might seem like just ordinary museum tours to you. No…here, it’s different. In America, so many historical artifacts, which aren’t nearly as old as the ones in London, would be fenced off or encased in glass. In London, you’re able to walk halls, and touch walls that date all the way back to the 1100s…almost 1,000 years old. I still can’t believe it. Trust me, when you experience it yourself for the first time, you’ll feel the same way as I do. There’s nothing like it.

So again, as far as history goes, Advantage UK.

Difference #4: Organizational Culture

Unfortunately, I couldn’t take any pictures of Organizational Culture, because we really didn’t visit a sight that had to do with Organizational Culture…also Organizational Culture is an intangible concept. But, I’ll explain to you some differences you might experience if you choose to work at a company in the UK, versus if you work at a company in America.

So for this subject, we had a guest lecturer, by the name of Paul Kypriandes, who I believe, is director of Internal communication at his firm. Basically, what we learned from him is this:

In the UK, the dominant management style is something called “Top-Down Management”. In Top-Down management, CEOs and upper management reach independent decisions that change major policies within a company. The authority remains with the top management, while employees spend their time performing their work duties, like good little subjects.

Sounds fun, right? Didn’t think so.

While every company should have some form of solid leadership, this management style has lots of problems. What if there’s a bad leader manning the helm? Not really much the employees can do. As many people believe, firms would run better if employees were allowed to bring forth their first-hand knowledge of the job, and use it to help make better decisions for the company. Also, when employees aren’t valued in company decisions, they become demotivated and won’t produce efficient results. It also leads to a “them and us” attitude, which if you’ve worked at any place ever, you know causes problems for a company.

On the other side of the pond, the U.S. has what’s called “Consensus Management”. Consensus management values the input of all employees in decision making. Any proposal must be acceptable to all group members, and if it isn’t management asks what needs to be changed in order for the group member to be on board with the decision.

Though this can be a more time-consuming approach, it empowers each employee, which in turn, increases productivity and job satisfaction. So many companies in the U.S. use this approach, like Google. Seems to be working out pretty well for them, right?

Wow. After all that, we’ve finally come to one advantage that America has over the UK. Now that would be an awesome job. Spend a few years working in America, then move to England and work with organizations to help them improve their internal communication and management style…kinda gives me an idea.

Difference #5: Display of Emotion

If you’ve made it this far without getting bored, I thank you for sticking with me. We’re on the last part I wanna talk about, which is the difference in display in emotion between Americans and Brits. I know, it’s not as interesting as the beer and history, but it’s something that I thought was cool.

You know those people who say “American has gotten too soft”? Well……..

So before we left for this trip, we were forewarned about this thing called the “Stiff Upper Lip”. Now before I learned what the Stiff Upper Lip actually was, I always just thought of it as one of my favorite AC/DC songs.

Basically, the Stiff Upper Lip is the lack of emotion displayed by the British people. If you’ve ever been to London, you’ll know what I’m talking about. They’re not overly friendly, and don’t get overly sad, angry, or scared about…..anything really.

This concept is best demonstrated in one of my favorite stories from the trip…

So our first weekend there, one of our friends acquired the name of a club promoter. We contacted him and he told us the address of the club to come to that night. According to Apple maps (this should already spoil what’s about to come), the club was only a twenty minute walk away. But once we reached the address, we found no such club. So we re-entered the address in someone else’s London app and found out that the club was a 20 minute Tube ride in the opposite direction. So we found the nearest tube station, and hopped on the appropriate train.

about 10 minutes into the ride and all the sudden, the train completely stops and the lights flicker. Over the loudspeaker, the train operator tells us that the electrical current which powers the train was out, and we’d be stuck until further notice.

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Now naturally, our first instinct was to take this selfie to document the event. Otherwise, how else would people know it happened? Anyway, we would end up being stuck on the train for an hour.

Upon hearing this news, we all starred at each other in shock and burst out laughing…you know, like we do when someone says or does something really, REALLY funny?

While all this is going on, I turned my head to observe the reaction of the rest of the people on the train. I found no reaction at all. I think I saw one guy quickly glance up from his newspaper and then return right back to reading. For the next hour, we loudly giggled and babbled on, and every five minutes, one of us would loudly say something along the lines of “OMG, what’s taking this so long?!”.

Not the Brits. Nope. This petty stuff means nothing to them. As we’re carrying on, all I saw and heard from them was sitting still, keeping to their books and newspapers, and the occasional throat clearing.

This basically dictated how the rest of the trip went. If you greeted someone, you wouldn’t be given the same friendly smile or enthusiasm. Most of the time, you were given a straight face, and monotone responses. Now as time went on, this is what I came to recognize as friendliness. The unfriendly people only gave you a grunt and walked away. Barely any emotion whatsoever.

In America, we’ve created a culture where any event or anything anyone says or does, demands some kind of emotional response.

Again…Learn from this, America. We HAVE gotten soft. You hear me? We gotta be more like these people!

Conclusion

Well, that’s it. I think I’ve made this post long enough. As you can see, I learned so much on this trip. Not only about media, and history, but myself. I experienced a lot of personal growth over those two weeks. Now I feel like I’m able to take on more challenges, and have more of an urge to step out of my comfort zone.

It probably sounds really smug of me to say this, but these two weeks were the most fun I’ve had in my life…ever. There was just something about being in a foreign country with a bunch of kids my age, and being responsible for finding my own transportation, buying my own food, basically just sustaining my own life there. I got to see so much rich history, and experience life and culture in three different countries.

Plus, I got seven new friends out of it…

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See? Look how sad everyone was to leave…except Jackie apparently. Alrighty then, Jackie.

Anyway, I wanna finish by thanking Towson for providing us with such an amazing program, my parents for letting me go on this trip, and my seven new friends from this trip for making this experience the most fun I’ve ever had.

As I said in the beginning, if life ever presents you with some nerve wracking opportunity, be it a study abroad trip, an investment, or a promotion, you jump on it immediately! You’ll only get something positive out of it. This is living proof of that!